Be Mindful of Manipulative People

As a consequence of being Mindfulness Practitioners, we’re looking to be exceptional examples of human beings. Even so, it is important to be aware, unless we live in some kind of commune or sangha (as the Buddhists call it), we will be living among those who couldn’t care less about being virtuous. Others care nothing about stepping on feelings and being completely indifferent to the needs of friends, family members, work colleagues, etc.

And so, along with being mindful of our own behaviour, be aware, that if we’re forgetful of the nature of vulnerable and frightened people, we will inadvertently be allowing them to trick us into doing their bidding. For it is the frightened and vulnerable, who seek the illusion of power – over others – through being manipulative. In their attempts to manipulate, they will be mistaking your kindness, for weakness.